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It was January, and I was 39 weeks pregnant with my second kid. I started losing my mucus plug three weeks prior, and just found out I was three centimeters dilated. Baby was head down, almost engaged, and we were all prepared for her early arrival. I went to grab dinner with a few friends that night. It would have been a lovely evening had I not been contracting throughout the entire meal. After finally calling it a night, I drove home clinching my legs together, sobbing, and praying that I would make it home and not deliver my baby in the car by myself.
It’s possible you’ve actually experienced this phenomenon yourself but didn’t know what to call it. Meet prodromal labor, the absolute worst form of torture nature has to offer.
Some might confuse prodromal labor with early labor or false labor. In fact, it is neither. It is not false labor because it does produce cervical change. It is not early labor because it does not progress to active labor or the delivery of a baby. Prodromal labor is labor that is consistent, painful, creates cervical change, gets your hopes up, and then totally and completely stops. See? Worst form of torture.
My experience with prodromal labor was consistent contractions (painful, not Braxton Hicks), 3-7 minutes apart for several hours — exactly what every birthing book tells you is considered “go time.” Every time I started to think this was it, the contractions would completely fizzle out. With my first pregnancy it happened one night, seven days before my son was born. The second time it happened felt like every other day for a solid month. While it’s possible this is simply part of my labor process, I believe my prodromal labor was due to mal-positioned babies.
Here are my tips for dealing with this very unfortunate event:
- Take it easy and rest (great advice, right?). I say that because every time I started having consistent contractions I hopped on my birthing ball, did squats, or walked my ‘hood like a mad woman. I wore myself slap out. Labor is hard work, and you need to conserve your energy for the real deal. Instead of jumping jacks, draw a warm bath and soak a bit with a good book and some candles or essential oils in the diffuser.
- After first consulting your doctor or midwife, try slowly drinking a small glass of wine (as in three or less ounces). This will help your body relax, which will tell you if you’re in early labor or not.
- If you think your baby might be mal-positioned, try forward-leaning inversions. This can help get your baby in an optimal birthing position by giving him or her some space in an otherwise cramped womb.
- Another favorite exercise of mine was Rebozo Sifting. Not only does it give your baby an opportunity to reposition, but it also gives you a moment of relief from the weight of your ever-growing womb. It also forces your significant other to shoulder the burden for a spell — and who could turn that down?
Prodromal labor is insanely exhausting, both physically and emotionally. Just remember, slow and steady is the name of the game. If it’s early labor, it will progress no matter what you do. If it’s not, it will fizzle out no matter what you do. You will know when your labor is going to completion because, guess what, it’ll keep going until you have a baby. Until then, try the tips above and relax. Your baby can’t stay in there forever. Despite what he or she might think.
Have you experienced prodromal labor? How did you deal with it?
For more information on fetal positioning visit www.spinningbabies.com.
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